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Dr. Patti Talks to Margot Anand of SkyDancing Tantra
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Dr. Patti Taylor: Hi, I’m Dr. Patti Taylor. We have an awesome show for you today. We’re going to talk about SkyDancing Tantra, and how it can bring passion, power, and orgasmic energy into your life.
Margot Anand: Yeah, the word SkyDancing actually signifies being buoyant, being light, being ecstatic, pretty much the feeling you have after having a good orgasm. In SkyDancing Tantra we have found a method which is probably the most complete comprehensive and advanced method existing today in the western world, and it’s a method that teaches people how to transmute their orgasmic energy.
Find out how Margot Anand, founder of SkyDancing Tantra is finding whole new levels of bliss by rediscovering a more simplified life. You’ll hear some of Margot’s own juiciest favorite frames from her new DVD series, including the one where during a ritual; he pours chocolate sauce all over his lover’s breasts, and then licks it off. All tastefully done, I might add.
Welcome to the expanded lovemaking show. I’m your host, Dr. Patti Taylor, and I teach people how to make love. Today on the show we’re talking to the founder of one of the most famous schools of Tantra in the world today as she gains new freedom for herself. Our guest is Margot Anand, the much beloved founder and teacher of the internationally famous SkyDancing Tantra.
Welcome, Margot. Margot is known as an internationally acclaimed authority on Tantra. She’s the bestselling author of the book The Art of Sexual Ecstasy, and the creator of numerous other books, CDs, and DVDs on Tantra. She’s also a teacher and educator not just at the SkyDancing Institute, but also at Deepak Chopra’s Institute, Tony Robbins Institute, and various other conferences worldwide.
Margot I’m pleased to have you here with us today. I think our listeners want to know more about the power of Tantra and how to make their own lives more fulfilling, rich, juicy, and rewarding. Also, you’re a trendsetter. You’ve been in the public eye for many years, and I gather you’re taking off in some exciting new directions. I think our listeners really care about what SkyDancing Tantra has to teach us, and will want to know more about why we would want o move on in life especially when we’re surrounded by the trappings of success.
So today I want to talk to you about this. So, number one. What is SkyDancing Tantra? Number two, what might people’s projections be around Tantra, and their false ideas. And three, what it’s like to be an awakened Tantra queen who wants to move beyond that. Margot, lets start with a few questions about what is skydancing tantra. So, could you tell us a little bit about this Tantra that you founded at Dane SkyDancing Tantra.
Margot Anand: Yeah, the word SkyDancing actually signifies being buoyant, being light, being ecstatic, pretty much the feeling you have after having a good orgasm. And this belongs to the lineage of Buddha Padmasambhava and Yeshe Tsogyal where the founders of Buddhist Tantra in the eighth century in India, in Tibet and in Bhutan. Padmasambhava is a great master in the lineage of the Buddhas and Yeshe Tsogyal was the first SkyDancer. And she was called a SkyDancer because she could fly in the sky, she could bilocate, and she could also take people by the hand and bring them to their bliss, which I can also do.
So, that’s the word SkyDancing right there, and SkyDancing Tantra came to me magically in the various transmissions and it started the first orgasm that I had the first time I made love where I was propulsed in a realm that is beyond the body of pure light and freedom and I met my original face, the place where I knew I would be after I left this body and the place that I knew I had been before I incarnated in my physical body. So in this place free of cultural constraints and parental education I met the light that we all are full on, and so that was my first initiation into recognizing that sexuality was going to be my path to awakening, to spiritual awakening, as a woman. And I wanted to, I sought and looked, could I find God in the bedroom? Did God have orgasms? Was there a goddess next to God?
And all these questions occupied me as I went around the world for many, many years teaching and learning and discovering with many different masters, and particularly in Asia, India, and in the South of France and in America, and I created a method that I called SkyDancing Tantra, which is a path that is basically dedicated to transforming lust into bliss. In other words, if you are making love the normal way, you enter into what I call an explosive orgasm of release. In other words, you ejaculate. At least men do. And, you know, women do too. Some do. But this point is when this happens repetitively it is said and I believe it is true that you don’t really transcend, you don’t transform, you don’t reach the potential, the awakened potential that making love, the energy of love making, carries within itself. So it’s a pleasure that is quickly spent. I always say that lovemaking is like peanuts: the more you do it, the more you want it, you know? So it becomes almost addictive if it remains at this first level of the explosive orgasm of release.
But in SkyDancing Tantra we have found a method which is probably the most complete comprehensive and advanced method existing today in the western world. It’s a method that teaches people how to transmute their orgasmic energy, so that when they make love they first have to look at sexual healing; are there any wounds that they need to heal, especially us baby boomers. We need to look back; what are the things that have aged us, what are the things that have contracted us, brought us difficulty and pain? Those things with their traumas leave their mark in the body so we learn in SkyDancing Tantra how to fully release these traumas.
Then in the second cycle of our year-long training, called the Love and Ecstasy Training, we learn how to approach full body orgasm and how to channel the sexual energy through what I call your “secret love channel” and which the Taoist masters called your “middle channel,” also called such in acupuncture, your “middle meridian.” And so when people learn how to open these energy centers, these channels, and allow their sexual energy to circulate through these channels, they have radically transformed experiences of orgasm.
So in the first few chakras it’s like the animal, the, you know, basic instinct, “I want you, you’re mine. I want to make love to you, you belong to me, without you I’m nothing. Promise me this and that.” And of course it’s full of traps: dependency, jealousy, etcetera, etcetera. When you move this orgasmic energy to the heart you feel surrender, you feel open, you feel as if you are falling off a plane with a parachute. You feel a let-go you feel a merging with your partner, you feel passion with compassion. When you transmute this orgasmic energy through your throat you let go, you express, you make sounds, you make noise, you give a color and an energy to your experience. You communicate, you know? Your truth, your needs, and what you feel. And then when you transmute this orgasmic energy through your third eye, you enter into spaciousness and the energy moves beyond the boundaries of the body into what meditators feel and experience as spaciousness, you know being one with all. And when you come to the crown you enter into the realm of ecstasy which is to stand beside your ordinary self into God-consciousness, into consciousness of the macro causal, into the connection of all that is, that is within you and all around you. There is no more separation.
So what SkyDancing Tantra teaches is all the modern methods in all the approaches that are known in psychology today, and in body work today, teaches everything a person needs to know to transmute lust into bliss, so that you can experience a morecum of awakening, of spiritual awakening during their lovemaking. That’s what I show people in my film, The Secret Keys to the Ultimate Love Life, and that’s what I explain in my books, the main one being The Art of Sexual Ecstasy, and it’s a wonderful method because it transforms your life. So far I’ve worked with 40,000 around the world and I’ve started six institutes and I just signed a contract with Steve and Lokita Carter who are going to start the SkyDancing Tantra Institute in California.
Dr. Patti Taylor: Well that’s very exciting, and what I’m wondering now is this SkyDancing Tantra something that really everyone can learn. Are some people going to be better at learning it? I’m wondering if some listeners are thinking, “Well that sounds all well and good but my husband or my wife, I don’t know.” I mean are some people more naturally gifted at this or really can everyone go and get some benefit from this.
Margot Anand: Everybody can go. My youngest participant, believe it or not, was 15 with parental consent, and my oldest were 84. And I have worked around the globe. I’ve even had success with a Balinese prince who didn’t speak a word of English and I didn’t speak a word of Balinese and we had a sensational session and he got healed of his problems and his blocks. So this is a method that is so powerful that has been so well studied. Imagine, I have all these institutes teaching this method, which is the love and ecstasy training, over three weeks over a year, first week and then four months during which you practice, second week and then four months during which you practice, third week and then you practice again. I have people that come from all walks of life and they are young, they are old, I have these institutes teaching this work for the last 15 years and I’m not even present to it anymore. That means the method works.
Dr. Patti Taylor: That’s encouraging, I’m sure our listeners are very encouraged to hear that. What would you say would be one of the more challenging things? I’ve read The Art of Sexual Ecstasy, for example, would opening the inner flute and finding that internal vibration, for example, be something that would take your average reader or student a while to learn, is that one of the more challenging things?
Margot Anand: Well I’ll tell you, every method you learn of self-development, every sport you learn, every goal you set for yourself, it’s always a challenge. If you start as a non-orgasmic woman, and you decide I want to be an orgasmic woman, you’re not just going to be an orgasmic woman just like that when you decide it. Some people do, some people are lucky. They fall into it because they are ready, because they are relaxed, because they have a good lover, whatever the reason. But in most cases, what are you going to have to do? You’re going to have to look into it, inform yourself, and practice, practice, practice. And you’re going to have to confront the myth and the false beliefs that you have acquired in the process of growing up in this country that doesn’t teach us very healthy things about sexuality.
One of the things is the false belief that you’re not going to get anywhere unless you’re in a couple. Not true. You can actually have great success if you practice this method on your own, because once you take responsibility for sexuality on your own, once you understand how you function sexually, once you learn all the different degrees of self-pleasuring, then you’re ready to understand that you are the source of your own orgasm, not what your partner does to you and how they do it. Then the more you come to the lovemaking situation having fully mastered your inner circuitry, your inner channels, and your inner love for yourself and your inner understanding of yourself and your inner comfortability within yourself, the more pleasure there is to be gained and the less problems.
I would say that the first challenge is for people to understand that they’re coming to a training where there might be singles and there might be couples. The second challenge is to understand that the multi-orgasmic response, which I demonstrate and show in my film in a very beautiful way, with Secret Keys to the Ultimate Love Life in DVD 3, that this multi-orgasmic response is a fantastic method, but it’s a method that people are not so used to face, which is teaching people how to give each other maximum pleasure not with penetration but manually. The people can choose in this training to go do this in the privacy of their own bedroom and they just listen to the explanations and they watch the charts and they watch the parts of the film that we show and then they go to the privacy of their own bedroom, or they can decide to do it in the group room in which case they each create their little private, secret corner, they’re surrounded by a blanket or a mattress or something, and they have the advantage of having the trainers, you know the coaches that are right there if they encounter a problem.
But it’s a fantastic method, you know, but once you, you know, have an orgasm as a woman you’re a different person. You are empowered to be creative in the world because an orgasm is what is going to take you to the very root of your creativity. But an orgasm is not just a sexual adventure; an orgasm is an energy event which can be elicited independently of the sexual context. This is what needs to be understood.
Dr. Patti Taylor: Well as you said, Margo, and thank you for that, and we will be getting more into your DVD for our listeners, and definitely giving them the website address, margoanand.com, so we will be getting back to that, but not all orgasms are alike, because as you said earlier was an orgasm gave you the awakening that started all of this and I would say a lot of our listeners, and people around the world, would say you’ve changed the face of the world and brought more feminine energy in. Could you tell us maybe a little bit about how orgasms are different?
Margot Anand: Well, if you experience an orgasm in your first chakra or in your sexual center you are going to be awakening your primal animalistic kind of instinct and all of your consciousness is going to be focused on your clitoris and you’re going to discover that there’s for orgasmic points, there’s the tip of the clitoris and the g-spot in women and there’s many more, but lets say these two. And in men, the tip of the glands and the prostate, you know to name those four. So when you’re just totally focused on this part of your body, which is what a majority of people do, you can have a great orgasm which is usually more, how to you say, focused on the pelvic area. Then when you move to your heart, as I explained a minute ago, you open up another part of your being which is your heart, so you fall in love with yourself, you care for your partner, you recognize each other as one, you feel that you’re one, and it’s a heartful orgasm, it’s a heartgasm. Then when you’re in the throat, the orgasmic experience has a lot to do with the expressive sound/ voice but it’s also being truthful, you know, and so on and so forth. I explained earlier you feel empowered at all levels of being so that you…what is Tantra? Tantra is the marriage between energy and consciousness. So when you feel the excitement, the electrical energy of excitement, the streaming energy in your body, and you attach your consciousness, your awareness, to that, say I am aware of this little streaming process in my genitals, that’s called excitement.
Now you bring in what we also teach in the Love and Ecstasy Training which is the three keys to orgasmic power, and that is: movement, deep breathing, and deep voice/sound making. The movement circulates the energy though the whole body, the breathing stokes the energy, amplifies the energy, amplifies the excitement. There’s a big difference between lying quietly and breathing through your nose, and then making lots of movements, making sounds, [breathing noises] which is what we do when we have a good orgasm, right? So we breathe deeply, we move, we make sound. That is at the root of the orgasmic experience, being willing consciously when you start to feel pleasure to bring in these three keys to orgasmic power. That expands your orgasm.
Dr. Patti Taylor: Wow. Well, I can see why a lot of people are taking this SkyDancing Tantra training. Would you say that people could get enlightened also then just as you did when they get into these states, is that a routine regular part?
Margot Anand: Well, one doesn’t claim that any path will get you to enlightenment, I don’t believe in that approach. I am not going to be the one that says to the Americans, “come to my training and you’ll get enlightened.” There’s a lot, there’s enough gurus in the world that are doing that. It’s not a very honest proposition because I don’t believe in recipes even though I found a method that works, and I don’t believe in recipes because everybody, every individual is unique. For instance, I’ve had 10,000 orgasms in my life, I have the most incredible Tantric practice, I just came back from Bali where I did advance practice with a Tantric magician like you wouldn’t believe and had all sorts of extraordinary transmissions, and at the same time right now I am totally on the other side of this. I’m like allowing myself to be a healthy 63. I am not exercising, I’m watching movies in bed, I’m doing things I’ve never done before. Being lazy because I work all day in clearing my life and clearing my boxes and doing all the stuff to kind of get to the next level to go into my sabbatical time. So right now I’m like not putting makeup on, I’m not making efforts, I’m not doing diets, I’m not doing any of that stuff and it feels so good!
I remember my time in Arica, which was a mystery school, with Oscar Ichau in New York, where I went for four years, and we all in Arica had what we call a Pig Day, and a Pig Day was a day when we were allowed to leave a mess in the kitchen sink, to not arrange our clothes, to let everything lie around, to not even get dressed in the morning, putz around the room in a bathrobe, and welcome our friends in our bathrobes, and you know like I’m doing that to some degree, you know and I love it. I know it’s going to be short lived, I know I’m going to Paris in a couple of weeks and I’m having this conference and I’m meeting a lover in Bali again and all that but I’m just like letting it all hang out and it feels great.
Dr. Patti Taylor: Well I wish everyone could see your face right now. You look completely enlightened to me. You can not convince me that you’re not enlightened by everything that just happened. [laughter] But if you say so, we got the point, there are no guarantees, however anyone who could look at you right now would run and not walk and take SkyDancing Tantra.
Margot Anand: Well if they do feel interested to take SkyDancing Tantra they should go to www.ecstaticliving.com.
Dr. Patti Taylor: All right, I’m going to read them the address too because it has the ring of authenticity when I read it, so SkyDancing Tantra and all this information can be found at your website, margotanand.com, where this and the DVDs and the books and the CDs and all of Margo’s fabulous information can be discovered.
Margot Anand: Yeah, but it’s also that I’m now passing my work onto other people, and the people that I’m teaching the training now are Steve and Lokita Carter, and they can be found at www.ecstaticliving.com.
Dr. Patti Taylor: Right, so we will come back to that. We’re going to take a break here and go to our kind sponsors and then we will return and find out more about SkyDancing Tantra, and even more about a birds eye view of Tantra from your very unique perspective. We will be back in a moment.
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