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Expanded Orgasm: A Bliss Path to Orgasm, Intimacy, and Awakening
Anton Diaz interviews Dr. Patricia Taylor
Author, Educator, and Founder of ExpandedLovemaking.com
Anton interviews Dr. Patti Taylor, the innovator, developer, and foremost expert in the world today on the subject of Expanded Orgasm, the author of the bestseller, Expanded Orgasm, and founder of ExpandedLovemaking.com.
In this episode, Patti shares her vast knowledge on refining and enhancing the orgasmic experience beyond the normal, even sometimes brief, experience we call “regular” orgasm. She integrates consciousness and pleasure into a practice that has its roots in ancient religious practices, and is also a state-of-the-art, and evolving dynamic practice.
Patti defines “Expanded Orgasm” and take us on a juicy ride as she reveals essential ingredients required to give your partner genuine, over-the-edge, Expanded Orgasms! She also reveals a priceless secret: how to find the orgasmic current, a state where intimacy, pleasure, and consciousness become one!
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Anton Diaz: Welcome to the Extended Lovemaking Show. I'm your host Anton, founder of Sexy Spirits in New York City. Today on the show we are talking about expanded orgasms, what they are and how they can give you the most amazingly fulfilling experiences. Our guest today is the renowned Dr. Patricia Taylor. Dr. Taylor has taught at Sexy Spirits for many years now and I've always called her Patti. So would it be OK to call you Patti?
Dr. Patti Taylor: I'd like that.
Anton Diaz: Wonderful. Let me tell you a little bit about Patti. She's the founder of Expanded Lovemaking.com. Patti is also the innovator, developer and foremost expert in the world today on the subject of Expanded Orgasm. She's the author of the best selling book, "Expanded Orgasm" and a star and a producer of a classic sex education video. She is also a master healer and a personal coach who has helped thousands of people bring more feeling, awareness, sensuality, love, passion and best of all, pleasure to their lives.
I'm pleased to have you with us today. Wow. Expanded Orgasm. I think all of our listeners will want to know more about how to give and receive expanded orgasm, so don't hold back on the juicy information you'll be sharing with us. On our show today we'll be defining Expanding Orgasm and we'll tell you how to have them. Plus we'll hear about people who've been practicing this art and the benefit that this practice has brought to them.
So today on this show I'd like to talk about what is an Expanded Orgasm and how it compares to the regular type of orgasm that most of us are accustomed to. How can our listeners learn to give and receive Expanded Orgasm, and are there benefits to having an ongoing practice with Expanded Orgasm? So let's start with a few questions. What is an Expanded Orgasm, Patti, and how does it compare to a regular type of orgasm?
Dr. Patti Taylor: Well Anton, most people know what a regular orgasm is, and I'd say regular orgasms are pretty good, so I don't mean to suggest they're not. An orgasm starts with a contact on your genitals. Once it starts to feel really good… then it gets better, and better, and better, until it feels incredibly good, and you go over the edge. Then, let’s say a few moments later, according to Masters and Johnson, six to eight contractions, eight tenths of a second apart, you go down over the other side, and that's the regular orgasm.
Now, in an Expanded Orgasm it starts to feel really good, often right away, and then you start spreading the energy and adding more sensation. You spread that energy through your body. You spread that energy through your abdomen and down your legs and add more energy, too. There's really no limit to how far you can receive were spread the energy. Now, it's feeling really good. You’re spreading sensation through your arms and adding more energy. Then this delicious feeling is going through your heart, mind and spirit, and maybe even through into your partner. You're expanding that energy. It's just feeling better and better.
Eventually maybe you're even having a few regular orgasms inside your Expanded Orgasm. It's just feeling better and better. Well, that's an Expanded Orgasm.
Anton Diaz: So Patti, it sounds to me like Expanded Orgasm is actually a deeper engagement of the person that's experiencing pleasure. It's an opportunity for them to take their own sense of pleasure deeper into their awareness and consciousness. That seems to be the emphasis more than actually what somebody is doing to them. Do I have that right, Patti?
Dr. Patti Taylor: An Expanded Orgasm is so many different things. Technically it's just the ability to take advantage of that fabulous feeling. You have so many feelings in your genitals and you can just spread them throughout your body, heart, mind and awareness. I mean the biggest sex organ in your body is your brain. But there are implications everywhere. You open up to love so you feel this in your heart. You feel this in your energy. It opens up dimensions in your relationship, and in your relating with a partner.
This information actually goes back thousands of years. This is not just about how to get off better, although it is a great way to get off better. I trace it back to roots in Kashmiri Shaivist Tantra. So, Expanded Orgasm is actually a profound path of spiritual consciousness because it's so incredibly deep and rich. A thorough Expanded Orgasm has many dimensions you can pursue.
Anton Diaz: Wow. It sounds to me with Expanded Orgasm that we actually engage our consciousness and minds in a far more intimate connection with our pleasure than we do with having multiple orgasms. It seems that we need our attention somewhat focused slightly differently. Can you explain that to our audience?
Dr. Patti Taylor: Our attention is in being fully present in the now, with each and every contact. I can touch someone right away and they could have an Expanded Orgasm. So the thing is that an Expanded Orgasm is a full-being, full-body experience.
So if someone is to touch me, for me to have an Expanded Orgasmic experience right away, they will learn to touch me not just in my genitals, they'll touch me everywhere all at once. They'll touch my heart, my spirit, my mind. They'll touch my imagination, too, because of course I have learned how to connect myself up. That's what we teach people to do. It's a very rich experience. And, a lot of fun as well.
Anton Diaz: The person that would be touching you would bring you into that state, Patti. What would they have to know that's different?
Dr. Patti Taylor: There are two things that are very important to know in terms of how to give someone an Expanded Orgasm as opposed to what we call a wonderful regular orgasm. Two things that really are important as a foundation.
Number one, it is very important to find somebody's current.
We're just going to talk about the woman right now. Men can have Expanded Orgasms too, but we're just going to talk about the woman for right now. You want to find her current, that place in her genitals that feels the best. You want to be able to latch onto that current and stay there. Because to really expand her orgasm so that she can keep spreading it through her body, you want it to be a continuous experience. Remember that I said she could learn to add and spread and add and spread sensation without limit.
Anton Diaz: Where would be a good place for a man to start touching on a woman’s genitals to get started?
Dr. Patti Taylor: That's a great question. The standard thinking is that for women, on their clitoris, it's about the two o'clock spot. So if a woman was a map, the top of her clit was about 12 o'clock and the bottom of her clit was about six, then her left side would be about three o'clock and her right would be nine o'clock.
About the two o'clock position is said to be where a woman's favorite spot is. It is also said that for 80 percent of women, that's where their favorite spot is. Presumably because women are right handed and that's where most women will reach over and touch themselves.
I'd say for the majority of women, if they will explore themselves, that's probably where they're the most sensitive. Of course having worked with a lot of women, I would say that there's some variation on that. A lot of women are too sensitive. A lot of women haven't really explored that spot. A lot of women like other locations. Of course the spot will change as a sexual date changes too. Spots get longer, they get more engorged. All kinds of fun things happen.
Anton Diaz: Wow. That's a delicious piece of information for us men to know.
Dr. Patti Taylor: It is. Clits get longer, they get bigger. The area feeling sensation can start out the size of a head of a pin, then grow to get dime-sized. All sorts of things happen.
Anton Diaz: Wow. Thank you so much Patti for that answer. We're going to take a short break to support our sponsors. This is Anton and I'm with Dr. Patricia Taylor. We'll be right back.
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